наборов свечей и расставляйте их в ключевых местах вашей спальни, так чтобы их мерцающие огни создавалand in спальне зоны света и тени.

— Еслand inы можете позволить себе это, подумайте над тем, чтобы сменить кровать. Most of us do not want to part with the old thing for a long time. However, the style of the beds is also changing. One of the most intriguing designs to hit the market lately is the gothic-style iron bed. Buy yourself a gothic bed with four posts for the canopy and a few meters of red muslin. Drape the bed on the sides and top with fabric, arranging a picturesque canopy, so that in the twilight of the room there is a distinct feeling that you are in an ancient castle in Transylvania. Make sure the mattress is fairly firm and suitable for sex; the act of love requires strong support for the knees and elbows. Some couples also do not forget to attach rings or hooks for ropes, straps, etc. to the bed.

Is your bedroom decor too girlish? Think of a bolder color scheme - reds, greens, blacks, anything that would be in the spirit of Count Dracula.

- Get a video camera for your TV so you can watch something intimate. Make a strong latch on the door to feel safe. Purchase warm fluffy rugs. Buy thin satin sheets. Stock up on well-known sexual accessories—lubes, essences, perfumes, scented creams, sex toys. Make sure that the bedroom can maintain a high temperature, because sex in the cold is not only unpleasant, but sometimes impossible.

— Еслand inам не нравится идея превращения в любовный уголок комнаты, в которой вы спите, используйте вместо нее свободную комнату. The very idea of ​​having a sex room is erotic, but you can call it whatever you like - a playroom or a boudoir!

HOW TO SPIKE HIS SEXUAL INTEREST
- Whispering sweet words in the ear of your loved one while he is at work can arouse in him an unbearable desire to get home after a day's work. Sometimes it's easier to be sexy when you're not touching your partner or seeing their face, so feel free to dial their number: “Hey, do you want to hear what I'm doing now? I took off all my clothes and lay on the bed, tightly squeezing my legs and waiting for you to come home and push them apart. Simple but very effective...

- Tell your loved one, at least once a day, what you love about him. And try to keep it regularly related to some very personal and intimate aspects. Even if it's hard to pronounce, make an effort. “How sexy your jeans are…” or “So nice to remember the firm touch of your thighs” or “I love it when he rides me.”

Tell him about one of your sexual fantasies in exchange for his fantasy. For example: “I came with you to a party with group sex. I'm terribly nervous because I've never been to such parties before, and you promised to be very gentle with me. Но я знаю, что ты тем не менее планируешь заняться любовью втроем, and inот я оглядываюсь по сторонам and inижу, как ты киваешь очень красивой рыжей женщине, wearing nothing but a velvet ribbon around her neck…”

Call your partner, pretend to be a stranger, and set up a date at a bar. When you go on a "date", dress "for character". Возможно, вы играете роль женщины легкого поведения и наденете колготкand in сеточку и туфли на шпильке. Or the role of a socialite, appearing in an evening dress. He could be a sea captain in a stylish blue blazer with copper buttons, or a gigolo in a striped T-shirt and French beret.

— Еслand inы располагаете деньгами, пополните свой гардероб пикантным нижним бельем. Men like women in silk - silk slacks combined with silk underwear make you irresistibly seductive. Stand with your back to him so that he can see the outline of your buttocks shining through the silk, tempting him and silently calling to touch you. Surprise him in bed by staying in your silk underwear. Almost any underwear will do, the main thing is that it be black, with lace and tight. Еслand inы хотите поиграть в невесту, обзаведитесь белыми кружевными панталончиками и чулками с кружевным верхом. However, the underwear must be visible. Therefore, try not to always sit, so to speak, like a lady. Remember Liz Hurley's dress, with a slit in the front so large that sequined panties peeked out from under it. Here is a possible role model for you in your sexual role play.

BED TIME
- The best time to have sex is when you feel like it. Еслand inы привыкли заниматься сексом перед сном, призывайте его в свои объятия до наступления вечера. Еслand inы сталкиваетесь с сопротивлением — с его илand inашей стороны, — все равно делайте это. Вся суть оживления сексуальной жизнand in переживании новизны. А занятие сексом в те моменты, когда вы даже не уверены, хотите лand inы этого, поскольку не подготовились к нему привычным образом, как раз дарит новое ощущение. Just say that you painfully want to feel him inside you, and therefore, could he lie down and give you the opportunity to have an orgasm?

- Go to bed before you get tired. Еслand inы только и занимаетесь любовью, когда измотаны, то едва ли удивительно, что секс не приносит вам большой радости. Еслand inы обыкновенно ложитесь в постель на автопилоте, старайтесь consciously change the established order of things. Give him a bath and take it with him. Take a shower together. Fool around in the bathroom, splashing and soaping each other. In the Kama Sutra, soaping each other is considered one of the most erotic arts (and this is before the advent of plumbing). We began to forget this practice, but in vain. So grab your sponge and give your partner the sensual soap massage they could only dream of.

— Make love in the living room. There is a hint of risk and exposure here - you slide off the sofa onto the carpet, clothes fly to the side, hands passionately squeeze your hips, lips greedily reach for your lips, hair is tangled ... and the window is completely curtained? Is the door closed and no one comes in? Is it closed?

HOW TO CHANGE A ROUTINE
- If he always initiates sex in your relationship, take a little initiative into your own hands. Bring him into your newly furnished bedroom and undress him gently and sensually. Unbutton his shirt, belt, trousers. Don't let him do anything on his own. If he objects, tell him that you are trying a new approach. Explain to him gently but firmly that in order to be truly sensual, you need to learn not only to receive, but also to give sexual pleasure. He wants to be sexually versatile, doesn't he? If he does not agree, perform the role of "boss" in turn.

- Agree to have sex like you've never had before. К примеру, еслand inы обращали мало внимания на стимуляцию иных частей тела, кроме гениталий, займитесь этим сейчас. А если же вы воздерживались как раз от массажа пениса, то сейчас самое время заняться this. Of course, it's best to do both. Strive to caress your partner in such a way that he begs you to move on. But remember that going further does not necessarily mean moving on to the act of love. This могло бы для разнообразия означать продолжение стимуляции рукой вплоть до финальных мышечных сокращений. Don't be annoyed that your satisfaction remains behind the scenes. Скажите себе, что зачастую более благодарное дело — сосредотачиваться исключительно на переживаниях своего партнера, потом придет and inаш черед. On another day, you can ask him to do you a favor in return and devote the evening only to your pleasure.

- Some find themselves incredibly turned on by the thought of someone else's sexual pleasures, the opportunity to see another couple making love. The problem is that it's not easy to arrange (or insecure); perhaps you are even well aware that reality does not give you such a choice. The best way out in this case may be "peeping" behind yourself in the mirror. This может быть удивительно похоже на созерцание другой пары. This своего рода порнографический фильм, предназначенный только для ваших глаз. Install a large mirror in front of the bed - it can be very erotic.

- Tape the sounds of the "love battle" and play it the next time you go to bed. Of course, you must be both "for", otherwise it's not worth doing. Some are especially excited by sounds. «Подслушивание» собственных сладострастных стонов может привестand inас в небывалое возбуждение.

Be warned: While many couples love the idea of ​​videotaping themselves in bed, this is not a very good idea. Записав свои любовные утехand in виде фильма, в котором вас легко можно распознать, вы рискуете стать объектом неприятной эксплуатации. There are times when men and women are horrified to find that their home videos are playing in a bar or club where everyone knows them. Or even on TV. Resist temptation.

- Fur, feathers, latex, satin give you the opportunity to especially subtly caress your partner and bring him to a frenzy. One of the most original ideas we've heard of is the use of a shaving brush as an instrument of sexual torture. Возьмите старый помазок, вырежьте по кругу щетинкand in центре and inодите им без устали по соскам или пенису партнера. And for the next weekend, you still have satin, latex, feathers, fur in stock.

— Как мы уже призывалand inас, наносите на карту неизведанные участки тела вашего любимого. The fact that you live