enjoy life and move on to the next item.

It consists of this. It is necessary to remove rose-colored glasses from your eyes and look at your happiness “the light of the red sun” objectively. At the same time, try not to lose tender feelings for him. And then there will be nothing to try. What kind of person is he? The options can be very diverse - from a gloomy silent man who, deep down, is more than anything in the world afraid of seeming ridiculous, to a shirt-guy who suffers because no one ever takes him seriously.

Next, you need to make friends with the man of your dreams. Perhaps you have long been more than good friends or just childhood friends. But if you are just good friends, you will have to strengthen your position a little.

Since you are “friends” (that is, you communicate often enough, and close, but without any a hint of eroticism), then you get a great opportunity to find out everything that interests your lover. By the way, one of the serious reasons for parting lies in the complete exhaustion of all possible topics for conversation. This danger does not threaten you - as a rule, friends always find something to talk about, and you can brilliantly demonstrate your ability to be a great conversationalist.

Well, then everything is quite simple. Your goal is to create a stable attachment for him to your person. Just do not go to flirting and outright seduction. In bed, you will most likely get your prey, but only your goal is a little more serious than a fleeting romance.

Let him be easy and pleasant in your house. Any woman knows perfectly well that the way to a man's heart always lies through the stomach. May your muffins, salads and cabbage soup always be delicious when you treat Him. You don't have to cook them yourself, but there is no need to destroy his faith in your unsurpassed culinary skills. A fried fish is unlikely to talk about your little trick, and you don’t need to shout about it all the more.

You can stay friends all your life, so you have plenty of time. Not in order to remain an old maid, but in order to steadily, slowly and surely bind him to himself. Your task is to make sure that when he sees you, he smiles warmly and comes with pleasure himself for advice or just “for coffee”.

Confident that you don’t need anything from him (except for exciting conversations), your man will relax and lose his vigilance. This is where you need to turn into a predator with lightning speed and take it “warm”.

No matter how strong your desire to marry him is, he should not even suspect anything about him, let alone know. This will allow you to keep the role of the conductor in the development of events. And his vanity and imagination will spur him on - does he, great and powerful, like the Russian language, really not excite you as a man?

But true friendship is not just about communication. A friend is someone we turn to in difficult times. It's usually easy for you to help him - run a small errand, bake a birthday cake, or find a book he needs for his job. But sometimes tragedies happen in his life.

Maybe he crashed a new car, his friend disappeared, some kind of trouble struck, or the woman he loved left him. ABOUT The last option will be discussed separately. And in all the rest, everything is very simple, because the elementary scheme works - she listened carefully and consoled with a kind word. The main thing - do not be afraid to overdo it!

Well, now about the terrible for him and the magnificent for you. Да, твой час пробил, ABOUTна его наконец-то оставила. Of course, this is in your favor. But one problem. ABOUTдно дело, если ты получаешь в свое распоряжение свободного мужчину, готового к новым трудам и подвигам. And it is quite another when this same man comes to seek solace from you. ABOUTтнюдь не женского, а дружеского. That is, you will have a “wonderful” evening - tormented by the pangs of jealousy, wipe his tears and listen to what a miracle of beauty and charm he has lost in the face of an incomparable and unique (yes, look for such a scarecrow!) platinum blonde.

The most disgusting thing is that you cannot stop all this feeling outpouring. You're a friend, you asked for it. So be patient and complete your difficult mission. But just do it wisely.

First of all remember one thing. When a man sobs in the arms of one woman (this happens, the stronger sex is not at all as persistent in life's difficulties as we used to think) from love for another, he does not perceive the first as a woman. And if the style of your relationship involves the frequent repetition of such situations, generally write wasted.

His warm feelings for you will cause him to associate with anything (from a battery to a mohair scarf), but not with sex and marriage. Do you need it?

In addition, if you take the opportunity and directly declare your claims to him, then you will suffer a complete fiasco. His head and heart are not occupied with you, and at best he will experience feelings of awkwardness and surprise.

If you choose the third path and throw mud at his lost love (“I immediately realized that she was not worth you”), then the result will be just the opposite. ABOUTна покажется еще прекраснее, а ты превратишься из друга во врага номер один. And oh-oh-oh, how long will it take you to regain lost ground.

If you do not want to start over five times, then do otherwise. Speech about unhappy love should be smoothly translated into the severity and loneliness of life in general. And on such “problems” you can easily demonstrate the breadth of the soul, the subtlety of nature, make a cute joke on them and allow the object of your passion to get away from you with dispelled sadness and good mood. Leave in order to return.

If you nevertheless decided to substitute your vest, i.e. blouse, under the streams of his tears, then let a couple of the top buttons (or better, a zipper) on it unbutton. You will joke nicely on this topic, but in such a way that your embarrassment does not disappear from his eyes. In such a situation, it is not worth bringing the matter to bed in any case (you are not a bottle of vodka to relieve stress).

You just need to expel the excessive drama of the situation and help him remember (completely by chance) that you are a Woman, under whose clothes sexy lingerie is hidden. Well, under it, as usual, much more exciting secrets.

So, he feels warm and comfortable in your society, confident in your positive "human" qualities and inclinations. ABOUTсталось совсем немного – поразить его своей неземной красотой, чтобы он наконец прозрел и понял, какое счастье он упускает, видя в тебе только друга.

A good way is to arrange a meeting with him in advance at your home. But adjust the whole thing so that he collides face to face in the entrance with you. You should be beautiful as a dream, in a stunning evening dress, with a happy look and a little disheveled hair. Let the aroma of someone else's admiration and passion go to his head.

In an instant, turn into a woman, at the same time inaccessible and desirable for any man. Behave in such a way that he will feel your change in triple size and be stunned by it. The more his confusion, the better for you. Do not help him overcome embarrassment - let him suffer well. Reduce your communication this evening as much as possible and put him out the door.

Alone with himself, he simply cannot help but reach “condition” and make you an offer soon. And as a result, at your feet will be his hand, passport, life and everything else.

Happy wedding!

Method three. Just love him
This is probably the most harmless and reliable way. Of course, it will be very difficult to immediately get a marriage proposal from a man, but believe me, the game is worth the candle.

You yourself know that in just a few seconds, a mutual attraction can arise between two people, which then smoothly turns into true love. It is in your power to turn a barely flared feeling into an unquenchable passion, which, perhaps, will end in a magnificent wedding.

If your man is not stupid and not callous in soul, he will definitely notice how you love him. Every day proving, showing, saying that your love is the most disinterested and reliable, you will assure him that you love not for a beautiful car, expensive gifts and a luxurious apartment, but for ... simply because you love.

In fact, only such love is real. If у тебя спрашивают «За что ты его любишь?», а ты молчишь и судорожно подыскиваешь, что же тебе сказать в ответ, тебя можно поздравить. You are truly in love. Do you remember how in the famous advertisement: “Why do you need a wife, you have everything: a super vacuum cleaner, a food processor, a washing machine ...” And then the inscription: “Because I love ...”

If твой молодой человек очень деловой и занятой и все его мысли поглощает только работа, не отчаивайся – даже такого «робота» можно вернуть к нормальной полноценной жизни с помощью твоей беззаветной, преданной, всепрощающей любви. Become for him that safe haven that is always waiting. May